All We Ever Want is More | Taking Control Week 2

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Taking Control, a new Crossroads weekly streaming series.

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Learn how to take control of what God gave you.

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- Come on, get up.

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Oh, (chuckles)

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If only I could roll my truck and there not be any damage.

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Hey, my name is Brian and it's great to be with you today.

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We're in a new series, a series called Taking Control.

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This little truck here is not mine,

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but I'm actually taking control of it.

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That's sort of a metaphor for our life,

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where our life actually is God's, God owns everything

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and He gives us things to take control of.

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That's what we're looking at today.

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You know, you might feel like you're completely out of control.

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A lot of us do.

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Or you might actually feel like you're in control.

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If you feel like you're in control,

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it might be because you're doing something right.

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You might be actually doing the thing

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that Chuck's going to talk about today.

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Let's hear what he has to say.

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- Hey, I'm Chuck Mingo, thanks for being with me today.

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I'm in one of the classiest hotels in the city.

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It's pretty swanky. You know, you got the frosted glass.

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I mean, there's gold plate all around this place.

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This is a really, really nice place,

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but I want to show you a secret.

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We're going to get underneath all of the veneer that we see here.

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We get into the bowels of this place a bit,

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to the heart of the matter.

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And that's what happens when you come backstage, right?

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I mean, here you go, you've got trash here.

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At this point, I'm glad you can't smell what I'm smelling,

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but you can see what I'm seeing.

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Trash has to go somewhere.

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And so we're going to keep going

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and we're going down to a place that in many ways

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reflects physically what we're talking about today spiritually.

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Let's go.

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So this hotel has parts that everybody sees, right?

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Those are the parts that are presentable, they look really nice.

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But then, like everywhere,

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there's a part that not everybody sees.

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You know, the same is true in our lives.

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There's the part of our lives that we live externally.

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It's the way we show up.

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It's how we dress, it's what we say,

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all of those public things, those physical, visible things.

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That's what a lot of people see of our lives.

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But we have a heart, right?

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We have a part of our lives that not everybody sees.

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And maybe just like here, there's clutter,

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there are things that you don't want people to see.

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Maybe it's -- maybe there's some dark places

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and places that you'd rather not show to everyone else.

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You know, in this series we're looking at those places

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because they say a lot about how we manage

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the things that God has given us.

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So last week we talked about time and how to maximize our time,

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the idea that we are managers,

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that God has given us that resource to manage.

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And today we're talking about finances.

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I know. I know. Just just hang with me.

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Yes, we're going to talk about finances.

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And when we hear that word, (grunts).

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Right, something happens.

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Maybe you feel great about your financial situation,

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maybe you don't.

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Maybe you feel shame.

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Maybe you just don't want somebody talking to you about it.

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But today we're going to lean into that.

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So this is the place I wanted to show you.

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But let me ask you a question:

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Do your finances look like what we just walk through,

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maybe a bit cluttered, some things unsettled?

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You know, the truth about money is

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if we don't take care of it, it will take care of us.

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It will manage us if we don't manage it.

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I wanted to show you this vault though.

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This is from 1901 and people used this vault in

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the Union Savings Bank & Trust to store their most valuable things.

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And they needed to keep it protected,

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because you know what they say, "Mo money, mo problems."

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Actually Christopher Wallace said that,

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a.k.a. Notorious B.I.G.

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But let me tell you what another person said,

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"No money, mo problems too."

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Some anonymous broke person said that, but it's true.

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So money has the spiritual dynamic to it

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because it reveals things about our heart.

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That's why Jesus talked about money a lot in the scriptures,

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like in the parable of the minas that shows up in Luke 19.

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Or some translations say, put this to work until I return.

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See it? Mo minas, mo problems.

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I mean, I don't know,

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it doesn't matter what denomination is, the truth is

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there is a heart issue when it comes to money.

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And yet this story is about learning that

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we are managers of the resources God gives us, not owners.

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Which is so freeing.

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And it's also about understanding that

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God wants you to use what he's given you.

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The story talks about risk,

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and I want to replace that risk with the word faith.

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Money is a faith issue.

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So here's a question for you:

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How much do you trust God with your money?

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I'm going to give you a time tested litmus test in a minute

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and you're going to want to see that,

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but let me just give you a hint right now.

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How you use your money determines

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how much you trust God with your money.

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And I believe that if you can learn to use money

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the way that God intends, there's freedom, there's hope.

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There is a level of taking control

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that God can give you in your finances.

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Let's talk about it.

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So, I want to share with you

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and talk about a plan for managing your money,

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because here's the real deal,

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if you don't have a plan, you're not managing anything.

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Think about this, this is the place

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where people kept everything that was valuable.

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And actually, the staff gave us a hint

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that some of these still have some valuable things in it.

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I think this might be one that is still filled.

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What's in here?

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Oh, soap.

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I always wondered where they kept those. Now we know.

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But there's really only three plans

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when it comes to managing your finances.

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And let's be clear, the world is more than happy

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to suggest a plan to us for our money.

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When I say the world, I'm talking about all of the systems

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that aren't operating according to God's heart.

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And the basis of the world's system, surprise, surprise,

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is you spend, you need to spend your money.

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We get marketed to all the time.

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There are people telling us, buy this, buy that.

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It's so easy to spend our money.

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And at some point you grow up a little bit, right?

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And you say, "Well, I should probably be saving some of my money."

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So, yeah, the world supports that too.

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There's all kinds of ways to make saving easy.

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And if there's something left over, maybe you give a little bit.

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But let's be clear.

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What actually happens is the world says spend

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and we keep spending and spending.

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If you're like many Americans, we're about $30,000 in debt.

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So what happens when we get to the point

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where we run out of what we have,

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we just say we'll borrow more, we'll just spend more money.

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I think we all can agree this is a foolish plan.

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So, what does worldly wisdom look like?

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Worldly wisdom looks like this.

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Worldly wisdom says, "Yeah, don't go into debt.

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Yeah, don't go into debt.

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You should be saving more of your money.

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You should be a saver, not just a spender."

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And, of course, give your fair share.

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That's that's basically the plan of the world.

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But let me tell you, God has a plan,

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and it is so much better

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than even the worldly wisdom that we see in this plan.

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God's plan brings freedom.

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And God's plan

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is the exact opposite of what the world would tell us.

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We're going to talk about why God says

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start with giving, start with generosity.

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And I know that might sound like a total ploy.

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I'm a pastor. This is a church.

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You're just trying to get me to give more money.

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I just want you to know that is not where I'm going.

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That is not where I'm going.

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Because then God says, "Be a good steward,

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manage well the things that I've given to you.

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I do want you to save."

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And let me be clear, God is not against you spending.

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In fact, He encourages us

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to richly enjoy the things that He provided.

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But here's what I want you to know about this plan.

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Here's the deal.

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This plan will bless you.

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And the reason it will bless is because

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God blesses things that are done in His order.

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Chris Goulart said, "How can we expect a god of order

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to bless our finances when they are in disorder?"

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I want you to know this plan is about your blessin,

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it's about my blessing, it's about my joy.

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So God's plan: give, save, spend.

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You can only do three things with your money,

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these are the three,

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but God has an order to the way that we should do them.

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First you give. You give.

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Now, let me just be honest and tell you

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the reason that giving is first

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has everything to do with your heart and my heart.

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That's why God wants us to do that.

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Because if we can give first, it's so freeing.

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Our heart is in a different place.

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You know, money can be this thing

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that kind of like pulls our heart with it.

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If we have more, we feel good.

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If we don't have enough, we feel bad.

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And what giving does is it cuts that,

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it cuts that cord and it gives us freedom

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to have a holy indifference when it comes to our money.

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So that's why we see in places like Proverbs,

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this book of wisdom, wise counsel around giving first

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when it says this:

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And I just want to pause there and just say,

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this is the first fruits thing.

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See, that's why giving is first.

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What will happen is they would have a crop.

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You can imagine if you were making your living on farming,

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you depend on what comes out of the ground.

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And it would make sense that you'd want to make sure

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that the first and the best coming out of the ground,

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you're setting that aside, right, so you can feed your family.

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God says, "No, I'm your provider,

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so I want you to give that first and best to Me."

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And here's the promise He makes,

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"Then your barns will be filled with plenty."

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You will not go without when you trust God in that way.

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"And your vat will be bursting with wine."

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So the spiritual principle of giving gets

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kind of captured in the idea of tithing,

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giving 10% of your income to the work of God,

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and specifically to a local church.

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Where do I get that from?

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And again, let me just give you the context here.

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There were twelve tribes in Israel.

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Eleven of those tribes had land and they could farm,

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they could get first fruits from.

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The twelfth tribe was the tribe of Levi.

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And that tribe didn't have any land.

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They lived off of what everyone else made,

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they got 10% of that.

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So when God is calling Israel to tithe, that's the context.

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He says, "Put me to the test in this," says the Lord of Hosts,

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"And see if I will not open up the windows of heaven."

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Let's come back here again.

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God is saying, "If you trust Me with your giving,

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I will open up the windows of heaven

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and I will pour out blessing

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beyond what you have room to receive."

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God is a generous God and so He calls us to give first.

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Now, let me tell you,

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if you don't have a local church, find one.

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I do believe God blesses when we give

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10% of what we have to the local church.

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And also, let me say this, this is a crazy,

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unprecedented time that we're living in with COVID-19.

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And I know that there may be people watching right now

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who've lost jobs or who have insecurity in your job.

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And I just want to be very clear,

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God's not expecting you to tithe on what you don't have.

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If you have no income right now, you don't have to tithe.

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This is not something that God is putting

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on people who don't have income.

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But it's a heart issue, giving is always a heart issue.

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I think about a friend of mine who his journey to faith

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was one where he wrestled a lot with the science.

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He wrestled a lot with evolution versus creation.

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His father was a scientist

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and those were big barriers for him.

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But if you were to ask him, he would say,

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"As big as those barriers were, the bigger barrier was

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would I trust this guy Jesus with my life

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and would I trust this guy Jesus with my money?"

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In fact, he would say, "The moment I knew I was saved,

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the moment I knew I was following Jesus

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was the first time I wrote a check to a church."

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Because it's a heart issue.

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It's a heart issue for all of us.

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So, Matthew, 6:19-21 says it this way:

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I mean, look around us. Rust, rust, rust, rust.

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All of these held people's most treasured possessions,

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but what is it left with?

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Empty and rust.

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And Jesus saying the same thing is true

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when you put your hope in money:

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Thieves will break in and steal, moth and rust will destroy it.

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But He says, if you can invest,

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if you can envision pushing forward investment

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and return in heaven.

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When you give, when you give to God's work,

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you're pushing forward investments

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that you'll get a return on in heaven.

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You're pushing forward investments in lives

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that are going to be rewarded

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in the eternal scheme and economy of God.

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And Jesus says, "Where your treasure is,

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that's where your heart will be also."

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So Hebrews 13:3-5 says:

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Don't let money be a tether that pulls your heart

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up and down based on what you have or don't have.

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Be content with what you have, for He has said,

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"I will never leave you and never forsake you."

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So if we're going to manage money God's way, be generous.

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Also if we're going to manage money God's way, be a saver.

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Yes, budget, avoid debt,

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learn to live on less than what you make.

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These are all super important things.

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God wants you to manage it well.

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That's one of the crazy parts of the world's plan

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is the world will say, "Hey, you know what?

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We think you should spend and we think when you get to a point

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where you run out of the money that you have,

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we think you should borrow and go into debt."

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And all of a sudden you're creating

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all these other liabilities that make it so hard to be free.

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Proverbs 6:6-8 talks about the freedom that comes

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when we have a forward thinking plan to save.

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It's a good management strategy to save.

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Proverbs 6:6-8 says:

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It has no commander, no overseer, no ruler,

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yet it stores its provision in summer

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and gathers its food at harvest.

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God has written this order into all of creation,

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that even an ant has enough forward and foresight

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to save something for a rainy day.

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And man, can I just tell you a sad statistic?

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Nearly 50T of Americans could not write a $500 check

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if they had a financial challenge.

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And that was me for years.

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I'm not acting like I've got this whole thing figured out.

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That was me for years, but as God has taught me

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to order money His way and to actually spend less than I make,

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even after giving, spend less of what's left than I have,

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God has given me and my family more margin.

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And I'm telling you, it makes a big difference.

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It makes a big difference.

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I love what Dave Ramsey says, he calls it Murphy repellent.

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We all know stuff's going to go wrong.

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Cars are going to break down.

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We know that's going to happen.

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Things are going to blow in your house.

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But, man, when you have margin, you can have peace.

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And God wants you to order and manage your money

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in such a way that you have margin.

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I don't know what margin looks like based on your income.

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I'm not saying every person in here

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has to have six figures in a bank account somewhere.

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That's not realistic for all of us.

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But God wants you to have margin based on what you make.

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Be a saver and so experience the peace of God

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that comes from wisdom of planning ahead.

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So if we're going to manage our money well,

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we need to be generous

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and I do believe God blesses our generosity.

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And God wants us to be wise. He wants us to be a saver.

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But then God also encourages us to spend.

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There is a reason why even in God's economy

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spending is the largest jar.

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I just want you to know

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this is not a message about not spending money.

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I believe God wants you to spend money.

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And the reason I say it is because

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God wants you to enjoy your life.

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I love 1 Timothy 6:17, it says:

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as for the rich in this present age --

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And let me just pause again and help us understand

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that if you are watching this right now

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and you didn't have to walk miles to get water.

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If you're watching this right now

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and you live on more than $2 a day, globally speaking,

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in this present age, you and I are rich.

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So these words are not for some rich guy

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that's the CEO of a company only who's watching right now.

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They're for you and they're for me.

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And it says:

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My money doesn't provide the things that I enjoy,

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God provides them.

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My job doesn't provide the things I enjoy,

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God provided my job and through my job

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enables me to provide for my family.

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God is the giver of every good gift.

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And so what does he say, enjoy it, but not only that,

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do good and be rich in good works.

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Enjoy it and be generous and ready to share.

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And again, this is this idea of storing up treasure

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as a good foundation for the future

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so they can take hold of that which is truly life.

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Let me tell you something.

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You will never find life in a bank account,

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no matter how much is in that bank account.

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You will never find life based on what you spend.

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You'll never find that.

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The source of life is the source of all those gifts.

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It is God, it is our God, and He is the giver of all good things.

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So I want to talk to you about how to practically

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put this plan, God's plan, into practice so you can be blessed.

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So how do we practically live this out?

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Well, first of all, let me be honest,

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I don't know if you're ever finished

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when it comes to learning how to manage money God's way.

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I'm definitely on a journey,

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but I found there are three essential tools that help me

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and the first is it's about my relationship with Jesus.

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I just have to keep in mind that at the end of the day,

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the goal isn't managing money well, the goal is Jesus.

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The goal is relationship with Him, trusting Him,

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and experiencing His care for not just my money,

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but every area of my life.

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But secondly, you need a budget. You need a plan.

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I do better in any goal when I have something

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that I've written down and that I'm trying to hit.

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And that's exactly what my budget is for me.

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In fact, my budget becomes a prayer exercise

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every time I revisit it to say, "God, how do you feel

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about the way that my family is being generous right now?

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Are you calling us the things

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that are beyond where we are right now?"

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And listening for His voice on that.

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"How do you feel about the saving that we're doing?

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Are there things you want us making more margin for in our lives?

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And then ultimately, how do you feel

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about how we're spending our money?"

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And sometimes God has said to me,

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"You're being too much of a tightwad.

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You need to spend more money.

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You need to invest in your family and have fun."

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But the third thing is I need accountable community.

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I need people in my life who know me,

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who know my flaws, who know my tendencies,

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who know my heart and help me walk through

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and make wise decisions.

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Has this worked for me?

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It absolutely has worked for me, because

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when you order your money God's way,

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you're stepping into a stream of blessing.

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2 Corinthians 9:8 puts it this way:

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I love that scripture because the word "all" is throughout, right?

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God's going to give you all that you need.

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He is going to meet you in all the ways you need Him to

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when we order our lives and our finances His way.

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But for me, it's not just about obedience.

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It really has become a response of worship,

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a response in gratitude because God is so generous to all of us.

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You know, there's a verse that you've probably heard

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many times before, but I want you to listen to it

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through the lenses of giving and generosity

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and how God cares for us.

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John 3:16 says: For God so loved the world that He gave --

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He gave His only Son that whoever believes in Him

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should not perish, but have eternal life.

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Why did God do it?

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God did not send His Son into the world

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to condemn the world, but in order that

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the world might be saved through Him.

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Think about that.

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God gave, He spent what was most precious to Him,

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at cost to Himself to save me, to save us.

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And I want you to know that's the place from which

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I want to use money God's way,

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it's from a place of gratitude that this God is so generous

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that I could never out give Him

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and that He was willing to spend everything He had to save me.

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So, if you want a breakthrough in your life financially,

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I want to challenge you to a 90 day challenge.

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For the next 90 days, for the next three months,

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make a plan according to God's plan.

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Make a plan on how you want to give

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and be intentional around that.

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Make a plan on what you want to save.

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What do you want margin for?

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And then make a plan about how you're going to spend

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the rest of your money.

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I want to encourage you not to spend to zero,

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but to spend under what you make

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and just see what it does to your spirit.

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I believe if you follow God's way

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and manage your money in this way,

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you'll start to take control not only of your finances,

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but you'll see God empowering you to take control

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of other areas of your life

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so you can have more of His peace

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and more of His power flowing in and through you.

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God, I do pray for every person who is listening right now

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that you would just help them to know:

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What's the thing you're calling them to do?

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How should they respond?

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Where are you inviting them to trust you more?

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Where are you inviting them to course correct?

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Where are you inviting them to double down

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because they are walking in obedience

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and there is blessing for them in that?

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God, would you make that clear?

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And thank you for being an incredibly, lavishly generous God

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who richly provides everything for us to enjoy. Amen.

00:23:58

- Maybe what Chuck has just talked about has hit you,

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like hit you really well, as in God might be nudging you.

00:24:05

Maybe it's time that you try tithing.

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We want to make it as easy as possible.

00:24:09

You can go to Crossroads.net/tithetest.

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and by easy what I mean is if you take up this challenge

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and you do it for 90 days

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and you don't feel God more present in your life

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or some blessing from God, you can tell us about it

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and we will refund all of the money

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you've given in the tithe test.

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You can go to Crossroads.net/tithetest.

00:24:35

- Here's the story of someone who took us up on the 90 day tithe test.

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- My name is Rob Suter

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and I work full time for Blue Ash Fire Department.

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I work there is a firefighter and a paramedic.

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My view on tithing before the 90 day tithing test was

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we would give regularly when we attended service,

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but we weren't tithing.

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I thought of giving a regular tithe because

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as my relationship grew with God over the last few years

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and as I watch our children's relationship grow with God,

00:25:08

I wanted to take the next step.

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The moment I was presented with the tithe test

00:25:13

we were in service at the West Side.

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And I remember as Brian talked about it in the message,

00:25:21

God saying, "You should take this step,

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you should think about this."

00:25:25

And I remember being afraid, but then

00:25:29

wanting to step outside of my comfort zone

00:25:31

so that I could grow my relationship with God

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and know that even though I had my doubts

00:25:38

that God was going to be there with me because

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He's been with me so many times in the past.

00:25:42

The first time we gave a whole tithe online,

00:25:45

it was a little scary. (chuckles)

00:25:47

It was money that, you know, prior to tithing,

00:25:50

I felt like we needed.

00:25:52

I was a little afraid of how things were going to work out

00:25:54

not having that money on hand.

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We certainly weren't doing it with the expectation

00:25:59

to receive something in return because we were tithing.

00:26:03

But at that point, I also hadn't felt any different.

00:26:06

I didn't feel any different.

00:26:07

I didn't feel like my relationship with God was any different.

00:26:10

Right after I reached out around the --

00:26:13

somewhere between 60 and 90 day mark,

00:26:16

just kind of unsure of -- if I was, you know,

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I wasn't sure if I was doing it right or not.

00:26:22

My mom fell and injured herself.

00:26:24

She had a series of medical problems over the last few years

00:26:28

and she ended up going into hospice in February

00:26:30

where she passed away the second week of February.

00:26:33

When we bought our house about eight years ago,

00:26:35

we still were living in a condo that we owned.

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With everything with covid going on

00:26:39

through selling our condo,

00:26:40

the people we were renting the condo to

00:26:42

we're moving out in like a week.

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Within a day of finding all this out

00:26:46

we were contacted by somebody on the condo board

00:26:50

who had somebody interested.

00:26:52

They made a small offer for list price for the condo.

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So it was just a blessing in so many ways that it sold

00:26:58

before it even went on the market,

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that it sold before we had to worry about that second mortgage.

00:27:03

Looking back over the year with tithing, I've realized

00:27:06

that even though I was unsure of my how

00:27:09

my relationship with God was changing because of tithing,

00:27:13

just how much it had changed.

00:27:15

Knowing that with all the challenges that I've had

00:27:17

with my mom's passing, with being blessed with selling our condo

00:27:21

and having that burden lifted from us

00:27:23

and just seeing again and again humbled how God is there for us.

00:27:28

I've also seen since the 90 day tithe test,

00:27:32

just with everything shut down through COVID,

00:27:35

people from our side at the West Side reaching out to us

00:27:39

and calling us and just checking in just to say hi

00:27:42

or make sure that everything's OK.

00:27:43

And knowing that there's that sense of community out there

00:27:45

has just been a blessing and very humbling.

00:27:49

With all these challenges, even though they were difficult,

00:27:53

it was also lighter in a way, because

00:27:55

I truly felt that God was there with me.

00:27:58

I feel continually humbled by how much He's shown up in my life

00:28:02

and for trusting Him.

00:28:04

I would say to somebody about tithing

00:28:06

to grow your relationship with God

00:28:09

you have to step outside of your comfort zone

00:28:11

and just trust that God is with you

00:28:14

and that He's beside you all the time,

00:28:16

even if you have your doubts.

00:28:18

And that it's OK to have your doubts,

00:28:19

because that's part of what having faith is.

00:28:22

It's very rewarding, very humbling and we've just been

00:28:25

continually blessed by how God shows up in our lives.

00:28:32

- Maybe you've been a tither for a while

00:28:34

and you're part of Crossroads.

00:28:35

We'd love to connect with you and you're eligible.

00:28:37

You're actually a part of a thing,

00:28:38

something called the Blue Team.

00:28:41

Blue Team are those who tithe at Crossroads.

00:28:43

And if you're not in that, we'd love to get you connected.

00:28:45

You can go to Crossroads.net/blueteam.

00:28:48

There's something that happens in life

00:28:51

when we give everything over to God

00:28:53

because it's always been His anyway.

00:28:55

And everything in our lungs is all God's because

00:28:58

He's given us our lungs.

00:28:59

And when we sing, we give Him something that He deserves,

00:29:03

that is our worship. Let's worship together right now.

00:38:31

- I hope you got a lot out of this week.

00:38:33

We want to build into you every single week.

00:38:35

We don't want to miss a single episode.

00:38:37

So to remind you, if you want to just text NEXT to 313131,

00:38:43

we'll give you a reminder to make sure that you don't miss anything.

00:38:46

You're not going to miss what's coming up,

00:38:47

it's what we call The Journey.

00:38:49

You go, "The Journey. What's The Journey?"

00:38:52

It's not a cross-country motorcycle trip,

00:38:54

though I wish it was, I'd be on it like immediately.

00:38:57

The Journey is an annual thing we do, we have

00:38:59

a multi prong approach to get us to a new place spiritually,

00:39:03

there's all different kinds of exercises.

00:39:05

It's a big, big deal.

00:39:06

We put a lot of creative resources into it.

00:39:08

I hope you're a part of it. Here's what's coming up.

00:39:12

- Every year Crossroads does this thing called a Journey,

00:39:15

it's a five week adventure.

00:39:17

Everyone in the community, from kids to adults,

00:39:20

zero in and go deep on one topic.

00:39:22

This year it's the Good God Journey.

00:39:25

Let's face it, 2020 has been a struggle.

00:39:27

Even the most faithful may be asking, "Is God good?"

00:39:31

It turns out that exploring that question

00:39:33

can unlock new levels of peace, belonging,

00:39:36

and potential for your life.

00:39:38

Interested? Great. Here's how you can get started.

00:39:42

Step 1: Head on over to Crossroads.net/journey

00:39:45

and initiate a group or join one.

00:39:47

If you have a group, great, you're all set.

00:39:50

If not, we'll get you connected to one.

00:39:52

Depending on who you are meeting with a group

00:39:54

might sound exciting or terrifying, but trust us,

00:39:58

this is where real growth happens.

00:40:00

We'll even provide a group guide

00:40:02

to help steer the conversation,

00:40:04

either in person or over a video call.

00:40:06

Step 2: Download the Crossroads Anywhere app.

00:40:09

It's packed with a ton of features that can help you

00:40:12

grow spiritually, including a Good God Journey Guide.

00:40:15

Each week during The Journey, simply open the guide

00:40:18

and discover something new about yourself and God.

00:40:22

Step 3: Watch the weekend message online or live at a site.

00:40:26

Part teaching, part challenge, part soul filling music,

00:40:29

plus a couple of surprises you won't want to miss.

00:40:32

It's that simple: Get in a group,

00:40:34

do individual work in the app and watch weekly.

00:40:37

Challenge yourself for five weeks;

00:40:39

it might just be the best thing you do all year.

00:40:42

Go to Crossroads.net/journey to get started.

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