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[music: Crossroads Music,
Count Me In]
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- Well, hey,
welcome to Crossroads.
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We're so glad you're joining us.
Happy new year.
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We're jumping into the
deep end this year about
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how we can
experience more growth
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and more traction in our lives.
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And specifically,
we're going to be doing that
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by answering and asking
some really important questions
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and actually looking
at how it's the questions
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that we ask that
shape who we become.
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We'll actually be taking
communion as well later.
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So you can go
ahead and pause this,
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grab some bread, wine,
something to eat and drink.
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But we're going to jump
in right now. Let's do it.
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- Well good morning and
happy New Year, everybody.
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It's great to have
everybody with us today.
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And we got some good stuff
today to start your year off
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getting in the right spiritual
direction, going that way.
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Behind me you'll see one of
my favorite pieces of artwork.
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It's a piece of work
that comes from Israel.
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It's in a church around
the Sea of Galilee.
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It depicts a scene
in the life of Jesus
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that I'm going to be talking
about in a little bit later.
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It basically means, hey, do
you want to be touched by God?
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And you're here today,
I think because
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you want to increase the
likelihood
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of being touched by God.
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So why don't we stand right now,
all of our sites,
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wherever we are,
let's stand and pray for us.
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God,
I'm thankful for coming here.
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I'm thankful for people
who are willing to risk
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and to make time for You.
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Would You do something
unique in our place?
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And also, God,
we want to tell You
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thank You through this music.
Amen.
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- Come on, let's sing together.
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- Come on, tell him now.
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- Come on,
sing those words again.
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- Let me pray for us,
Father God,
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it's the first
Sunday of the year.
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I think my voice
is already gone.
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I might not have a voice,
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but I got a heart that won't
stop singing for You. Never.
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Because I am only here
today by Your goodness,
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by grace upon grace.
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You hold me up.
You hold me together.
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You never stop running after me.
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And that's true of every
single person who's here.
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You know their name.
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You saw their footsteps in here,
in the room and online,
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and You have good
things and more for us.
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Thank You, God.
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I bless you and praise You all
because of You, Jesus.
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Amen. Amen.
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Yeah.
It's good to be back together.
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Hey,
if you're joining us online,
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we're so glad
you're joining with us.
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Why don't you, uh, I don't know,
give your dog knuckles
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or text a friend, say,
Happy New Year.
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If you're in the room right now,
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why don't you give
somebody knuckles,
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say, glad to be here with you.
Happy new year.
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- You could stay
right where you are,
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but maybe you weren't made to.
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In South Africa, kids are
stepping into a brighter future.
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In Nepal,
hope is protecting girls
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before the darkness
can reach them.
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In India,
freedom is finding its voice
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through aftercare
and restoration.
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In Nicaragua, clean water
brings life that never runs dry.
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In Guatemala,
education is changing the story
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for the next generation.
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In Alabama,
empathy is building bridges
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where walls once stood.
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In Appalachia,
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communities are rising
from the weight of poverty.
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In Puerto Rico, neighborhoods
are thriving again,
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one house at a time.
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All across the world,
people are moving
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because there's no plan B
for what God wants to do.
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We are His plan A.
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He's not waiting
for someone else.
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He's inviting you, your hands,
your story, your yes.
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You can't stay here.
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Go. Because the world...
is waiting.
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- The world is waiting.
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I love that video just
shows some of the places
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that our community is going,
because there isn't a plan B.
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God is looking to us
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and inviting us to go to
a new place spiritually.
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And that could be you this year.
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You could go to a new place
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literally and
spiritually this year.
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These trips are incredible.
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You can get all the information
at crossroads.net/trips.
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But let me just tell you,
you will experience
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a deeper level of
connection with God,
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a deeper sense
of your own gifting.
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And while it might
be uncomfortable,
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it can help you
go to a new place.
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I'm actually going
to Puerto Rico
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with my ten year old
daughter this summer.
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It's going to be incredible.
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All the details at
Crossroads.net/trips.
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Now, all the stuff
around here is designed
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to help you grow, but we grow
best when we grow together.
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And Crossroads is an
incredible community.
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While there's great teaching,
there's great music,
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there's great worship,
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the best thing about
this place is the people.
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We'd love for you to
get connected to some of
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the great community that
makes this place awesome.
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And you can do
that through a group.
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We've got all kinds of groups.
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We've got groups
in meeting homes,
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groups that meet at
our physical locations,
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online groups,
and we've got cohorts
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which are online
gatherings over three weeks
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where you get to grow
around a specific topic.
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But the common thread
through all of these
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is that you get to
grow with other people,
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and you get to get
to know other people
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and they get to know you.
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It's a powerful thing
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and one of the best
parts about this church.
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Go to crossroads.net/groups
for all that.
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Now, I heard some research
recently that I just love.
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It like blew my
mind when I heard it.
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Surveyed over 100,000
people of all ages,
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the largest research like
this that's ever been done.
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And it showed that one habit
could change people's lives.
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You know what it was?
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Reading the Bible
four times a week,
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at least four times
a week can have
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revolutionary
impact on your life.
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Everything from anxiety
to alcoholism went down.
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Things like friendships
and meaning and purpose
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went through the roof.
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And our church is doing
something that could help you
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set a new rhythm, not just a
rhythm to go to the gym more
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or to read more,
but a spiritual rhythm,
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a spiritual habit that could
help you go to a new place.
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And it's reading the Bible.
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We're doing the
entire Bible in a year
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in the Crossroads Anywhere app.
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We'd love for you to join us.
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You can about 15 minutes a day.
It's short, it's easy.
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You can read through,
and if you do that,
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take that small step,
make that small habit,
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you can have read
through the entire Bible
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alongside this community.
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We'd love for you to join us
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in the Crossroads Anywhere
app to make that happen.
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Now, all the stuff around here,
I feel like
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I've just been talking
about a laundry list of things,
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but there's so much more
that I don't have time to share
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because we want
to see people grow.
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And that happens because
people are generous
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and people are faithful.
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If you're new around here, hey,
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we don't want anything from you.
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We want you to experience
more of God at this place.
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But I just recognize I'm here
and I'm a different person
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because people invested in me.
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If you've got questions about
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what Crossroads
believes about money,
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or you want to join the
team of faithful givers
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who make that possible,
you can do so
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at Crossroads.net/give.
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Now we continue to jump in
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with the rest of our
service right now.
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- When I got locked up,
he was ten months.
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My biggest fear was
him forgetting me.
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Just him seeing that
a gift came from me,
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it was just special, for real.
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Like, just knowing that
we was able to pick it
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was the best.
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People think that their kids,
like,
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just because they're 4 or 3,
that they don't remember.
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They remember.
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- It just it really means a
lot because after today,
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like, it leaves you feeling
like a mother, like a mom.
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All those things
you miss out on, like,
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it kind of gives you that
little bit of feeling back,
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so it's amazing.
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Well, I just want to
tell the community,
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thank you so much.
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Many of us here have
damaged or broken our bonds
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with our children
and putting this on
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and giving us these gifts and
letting us be mothers again,
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you know,
it strengthens our bonds.
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It's helping rebuild the
damage that we've done.
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- Unless you was in my head,
you wouldn't be here
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to know, like, to the
extent of how thankful I am.
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Something like this is
what keeps me going.
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Like, I can't let my son down.
This is worth it.
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- Man. Uh, I feel like we should
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just close in prayer right now.
My goodness.
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Uh, well, uh.
Hey, let's pray right now.
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God,
I'm thankful for those families
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that we have been able to bless.
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And I thank you for the fact
that
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You don't give up on anybody
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and You always have
a plan of restoration.
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So I also pray God
for normal people here
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at Crossroads today
that we need restored.
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We need a little kick.
We need a little, uh,
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a little encouragement
to go forward.
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And I pray that that happens.
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I pray that You'd help me be
in sync with where people are
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and most important,
in sync with Your Spirit
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and be able to be willing
to say what You want said.
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And I pray these things
according to the character
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and identity of Jesus. Amen.
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Well, I don't know
if you noticed or not,
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but I think during 2025,
maybe the most frequently
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quoted Bible passage
that I had was Luke 2:52,
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where Jesus says --
Where it says about Jesus,
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He grew in wisdom and stature.
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He grew in stature and wisdom.
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Now, I don't know if you've
ever thought about this before,
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but Jesus beginning
didn't start at Christmas.
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He didn't have a
start at Bethlehem,
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and that's the
beginning of His creation.
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The Bible is very
clear that Jesus is God,
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He's always existed,
at creation He existed.
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He just took on flesh
and encountered life
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the way we encounter it.
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And when He came
and took on flesh,
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theologians know
this is really tough.
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He's God,
but at the same time He's human.
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So He goes through some
sort of growth process.
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In the same way that his
body had to physically mature,
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He also had to
spiritually mature.
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So while He never
committed a sin,
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He was growing in understanding
who the Father was,
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growing in understanding
who He was.
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Now I say all this,
I can do a deep dive,
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an entire series on that,
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but that's just a
kickoff to say this.
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If you want to be like Jesus,
you have to be a person
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who values growth,
because Jesus was about growth.
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That was His life.
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And if you're saying about 2026,
"Yeah, just 2025,
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rinse and repeat,"
you're not being like Jesus.
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No matter.
No matter how spiritually mature
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or how spiritually
immature you are,
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if you have a heart that says,
"I want to advance
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to be the person that
looks like God this year,
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looks more like God,"
then you're in the right place
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and you're going the direction.
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If you're impressed
with who you are,
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if you're impressed
with all the stuff,
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then at that moment,
even though you might be
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hyper spiritual,
hyper spiritual, hyper moral,
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you're not being like Jesus
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because
He grew in wisdom and stature.
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He never stopped growing
in wisdom and stature.
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The oldest person in
all of our rooms today,
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the oldest person
assisted living,
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at least their hair and
their fingernails are growing
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because living things
are supposed to grow.
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And so I want to help you
grow today by looking at
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one of my favorite
stories in the Bible.
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It comes from the book
of Luke chapter eight.
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And let me just read a portion
for you. Here's what it says.
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And Jesus went,
the people pressed around Him.
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And there was a woman who had a
discharge of blood for 12 years,
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and though she had spent
all her living on physicians,
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she could not be
healed by anyone.
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The Book of Luke is
written by a physician, Luke,
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and he is quick to
point out that, hey,
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physicians don't always
have the answers.
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And this woman was not getting
any answers from the doctors.
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She came up behind Him
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and touched the
fringe of His garment,
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and immediately her
discharge of blood ceased.
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And Jesus said,
"Who was it that touched me?"
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There's a lot to
talk about here.
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I'm going to talk
about all of it.
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But if you want to grow,
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there's three things
that have to happen.
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And one of them we
see in this passage.
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If you want to grow,
first thing that has to happen
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is you have to ask questions.
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Jesus asks the question, what?
Who? Who touched me?
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Jesus asked questions 300 times,
300 questions.
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Now, a lot of those questions
were rhetorical questions
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as a teaching device, but
genuine questions like this one,
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who touched me
or He's on the cross.
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He says to God, "My God, my God,
why have You forsaken me?"
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300 questions. In the
Bible there's 3000 questions
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inside of the Bible.
That's pretty crazy.
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When we ask questions,
we're communicating:
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I want to know You.
I want to understand You.
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I might want to
become more like You.
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That's what a
question really does.
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Not the kind of questions
that many of us ask.
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Like,
the worst question I asked,
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I'm so ashamed of
myself when I asked this is:
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what's your name? I meet
so many. What's your name?
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I'm not ashamed
of that question.
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I'm ashamed that if I have
a two minute conversation
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with them, in two minutes, I'm
asking the exact same question.
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Because the first time
I asked the question,
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I wasn't really wanting
to know their name.
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I just wanted an
icebreaker question.
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I just wanted to get the flow.
I wasn't listening.
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See, a lot of us,
we don't ask questions,
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meaning we don't listen.
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In Pulp Fiction, there's
that one line in that movie
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that do you listen or do
you wait for people to talk?
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You've been around
people like that, right?
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It's like if you don't ask
a question, they don't --
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They don't shut up.
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And then when
you ask a question,
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it just gives them more
reason to keep talking,
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going, going, going, going,
going, going, going, going.
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That person isn't
trying to know you.
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They're not trying
to understand you.
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They're trying to
understand your life.
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They're just talking and
talking and talking and talking.
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But when you ask
a genuine question,
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something profound happens.
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You know, one of the
questions that I'll ask is,
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this wonderful question.
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We're going to have you ask
somebody right beside right now.
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It's this: when's the last
time you pooped your pants?
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It's a great question.
It really is.
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It's a wonderful question.
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It's like, "I've never done
that. I've never done that."
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The wealthiest person
that I know, that I know,
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poops his pants all the time.
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Let me tell you about this guy.
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I went out to to hunt
this last year out west
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wild game hunting,
big, big game hunting.
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I have a pastor friend
who's got a guy in his church
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who's a rancher who
I believe they based
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the television series
Yellowstone off of him
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and his right hand guy. I
believe at the core of my being.
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If you added up all his ranches.
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And by the way, you don't
know this guy's name at all.
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If you added up all of his
ranches, he has enough land
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to go stretch a mile wide from
Boise, Idaho to Washington, DC.
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Crazy.
I asked him that question once.
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He said -- he's 84,
85 year old guy.
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He's like, every year.
Yeah, yeah, every year.
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It's his right hand guy is like,
"What?"
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"Yeah, yeah yeah, yeah."
So I sent him this.
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00:27:53
This is a message I
sent to some of my friends
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00:27:55
this last year, including him.
-
00:27:59
I sent this to him
the last day of 2025.
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00:28:03
It was wonderful.
It was wonderful.
-
00:28:04
It's a great
conversation starter
-
00:28:06
because people really get real,
real quick, right?
-
00:28:10
I'm glad, by the way,
I failed in 2025.
-
00:28:13
I don't know if
I failed in 2025.
-
00:28:15
I had a good run 2024,
2023, but 2025 I failed.
-
00:28:20
And rather than tell you
exactly what happened,
-
00:28:23
uh, Jeff Foxworthy
explains it really well.
-
00:28:27
- But there's just as much stuff
you can't learn from Google.
-
00:28:30
You only learn it
from life experience.
-
00:28:33
You usually learn
most of it the hard way.
-
00:28:36
It's stuff that's
not Googleable.
-
00:28:39
I don't know if that's a word,
-
00:28:43
but I call them
the Facts of Life.
-
00:28:44
It's stuff you can't Google,
like this: fact of life.
-
00:28:47
If you are trying to
get to the bathroom
-
00:28:50
in an emergency situation,
it is not a wise idea
-
00:28:54
to unbutton your
pants in transit
-
00:28:57
trying to save a
couple of seconds
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00:29:00
because the muscles
that guard the flood gates
-
00:29:04
will interpret the
unbuttoning as the signal
-
00:29:06
to abandon their post,
and the two seconds you saved
-
00:29:12
on the button are nullified
by the hour and a half
-
00:29:14
you spend mopping
and doing laundry.
-
00:29:19
You only learn
that the hard way.
-
00:29:23
- That was my story.
That was my story.
-
00:29:24
Now, aside from that
great icebreaker question,
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00:29:27
she really should use it.
It's really wonderful.
-
00:29:29
In the Bible as I've been
reading it starting this year
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00:29:33
to go cover to cover,
I'm amazed again
-
00:29:35
by how many questions there are.
-
00:29:37
God asks Adam and Eve,
where are you?
-
00:29:40
He asked them, who told you?
-
00:29:41
Who told you you were naked?
-
00:29:43
You got Cain and Abel saying
am I my brother's keeper?
-
00:29:46
There's questions
throughout the whole thing.
-
00:29:49
Jesus grew because
He asked questions.
-
00:29:52
In the book of Luke 2:46-47.
-
00:29:55
He's a little kid.
He's 12 years old.
-
00:29:56
His parents can't findHim.
Well, where is He?
-
00:29:59
He's in the temple
because He wants to grow.
-
00:30:01
He's in the synagogue
because He wants to grow.
-
00:30:03
I'll tell you what,
if you want to grow,
-
00:30:04
you're going to be
at church this year.
-
00:30:06
You don't want spiritual growth,
-
00:30:07
then just do whatever
everybody else does.
-
00:30:09
Jesus was always like, "Hey,
I can grow. I'm going there."
-
00:30:12
Here's what it says: After
three days, they found Him.
-
00:30:14
They were gone for three days.
-
00:30:15
He was trying to
grow for three days.
-
00:30:17
He was engrossed in God.
-
00:30:19
And what was he doing
for that three days?
-
00:30:20
He was among the
teachers listening to them
-
00:30:23
and asking them questions,
asking them questions.
-
00:30:28
And all who heard
Him were amazed
-
00:30:30
at His understanding
and His answers.
-
00:30:34
Toddlers asked
290 questions a day.
-
00:30:39
And as they grow and they age,
about 8 or 9,
-
00:30:42
they start going down,
down, down hill.
-
00:30:45
And today,
most of us who are adults
-
00:30:47
don't ask a single
question a day.
-
00:30:49
If we do ask a question,
we ask a question
-
00:30:52
to just make sure
you agree with me
-
00:30:53
so I can feel validated.
-
00:30:55
We don't actually ask
genuine questions of people
-
00:30:57
who might have
a differing opinion
-
00:30:58
or a different value
system than we do.
-
00:31:01
We just don't do that.
-
00:31:03
Jesus here He asks who
touched Me? Who is it?
-
00:31:08
He's asking this question.
-
00:31:10
One of the questions I asked
at the very end of 2025 too
-
00:31:13
is I said, you know,
I realized, huh?
-
00:31:15
Um, I haven't used
Google all year. Not at all.
-
00:31:21
Not because I'm
fasting from the internet
-
00:31:24
or I don't have things to learn,
but I
-
00:31:25
all year I've used ChatGPT.
-
00:31:28
And so the way you use
ChatGPT is you ask it questions.
-
00:31:32
So all every, every questions,
every question I've had,
-
00:31:36
everything I've wanted
to find information on
-
00:31:38
I got from ChatGPT.
-
00:31:40
A torque value for a bolt,
a hunting gear,
-
00:31:45
the tense of a Greek
word to understand
-
00:31:48
if it's past pluperfect,
all these different things,
-
00:31:51
all different sort of things.
-
00:31:53
I've asked questions
for an entire year.
-
00:31:55
And then I said, huh?
-
00:31:56
I asked ChatGPT the
last question of the year.
-
00:31:59
I said,
what is it you know about me?
-
00:32:03
Oh my goodness. Wow. It gave --
-
00:32:06
I'm not going to give
you the four categories.
-
00:32:08
They said, here's the
four things about you.
-
00:32:10
Like, geez, I felt like I'd been
going to therapy all year long.
-
00:32:13
Like nailed me.
-
00:32:14
I went to my wife
and a friend of mine.
-
00:32:16
I said, this is what was said.
Can you believe this?
-
00:32:19
Does this sound accurate?
-
00:32:20
Like oh my gosh. Yeah.
-
00:32:22
And I said,
how do you know this?
-
00:32:24
Here's what ChatGPT said:
-
00:32:26
Patterns over time,
not single facts.
-
00:32:29
I don't infer that from
one conversation.
-
00:32:32
It comes from
repeated signals across
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00:32:34
very different domains,
-
00:32:36
mechanical
restoration questions,
-
00:32:38
hunting optic gear choices,
biblical Greek theology,
-
00:32:41
leadership talks,
laws, safety rules,
-
00:32:43
financing, resale.
All these things.
-
00:32:46
And here it is: when
the same posture.
-
00:32:48
I love that. When the same
posture shows up in trucks,
-
00:32:52
scripture,
hunting gear and leadership,
-
00:32:55
it's not coincidence.
It's character. Hmm.
-
00:33:00
I thought, well, still,
maybe it's just trying
-
00:33:02
to make me feel good.
-
00:33:03
Maybe it realizes it
makes me feel good
-
00:33:05
it's going to ensure that I keep
using it and asking questions.
-
00:33:08
So I asked, are you trying
to make me feel good?
-
00:33:13
Questions. Here's what it says.
-
00:33:15
It said, I, he, she, it,
they, it, whatever it is,
-
00:33:19
I don't gain anything
by flattering you.
-
00:33:22
What I gave you was specific,
structural and costly.
-
00:33:27
Many people think
they want honesty,
-
00:33:29
but what they really
want is reassurance,
-
00:33:31
justification, validation,
relief from discomfort.
-
00:33:36
They said because the
truth without readiness
-
00:33:38
isn't helpful.
It's just noise or injury.
-
00:33:43
Now, I'm going to
give you the truth today,
-
00:33:45
and I think you're ready for it
because you came here today.
-
00:33:49
You could have been a
bunch of different places,
-
00:33:51
but that's my heart
for you to have truth.
-
00:33:54
So the second thing
after we ask questions
-
00:33:55
is determine who you want to be.
-
00:33:59
Determine who you --
Who do you want to be?
-
00:34:02
I'm not talking about like
I'm a well, actually, yeah,
-
00:34:04
like a six year old.
-
00:34:06
People ask it, who do you
want to be when you grow up?
-
00:34:08
Who do you want to be
when you grow up? Who is it?
-
00:34:10
What's the preferred identity
that you want to embrace?
-
00:34:15
What is it?
-
00:34:16
This woman, she is
determined who she wants to be
-
00:34:21
is she wants to be healthy.
She wants to be whole.
-
00:34:24
And she's been spending
her money on this
-
00:34:26
for a long, long, long time.
-
00:34:30
So much time that she's
gone financially. It's out.
-
00:34:33
And so, like,
what's what's going on?
-
00:34:35
Well, she's menstruating,
for 12 years she's menstruating.
-
00:34:39
Oh my goodness. Wow.
-
00:34:40
If I cut my knuckle,
if I cut my knuckle
-
00:34:44
and it's bleeding,
that bums me out.
-
00:34:46
For you women, man,
for four days every month,
-
00:34:49
that'd be horrible.
-
00:34:51
You are unbelievably
tough creatures.
-
00:34:53
That's just tough, tough,
tough, tough stuff.
-
00:34:55
Now you add on to this,
add on to this
-
00:34:58
that not only do you
have that discomfort
-
00:35:00
and all that stuff,
but you're also in a culture
-
00:35:05
that believes and teaches
that whenever you're bleeding,
-
00:35:09
it's what's known as unclean.
-
00:35:12
Now, this is the case
with men and women.
-
00:35:14
So if I have my cut knuckle
-
00:35:16
and someone would
see my cut knuckle,
-
00:35:18
I would have to be
removed from the community
-
00:35:20
for a period of time.
-
00:35:21
Because the ancient Jews,
they believed that,
-
00:35:24
this is a very rough,
rudimentary understanding,
-
00:35:26
but it's at least 99, 95% true,
-
00:35:30
but it's just just
CliffsNotes version here.
-
00:35:32
Clean and unclean meant
that if you were manifesting
-
00:35:37
a position that would
not be in heaven,
-
00:35:38
you are known as unclean.
-
00:35:41
If you're manifesting a
situation or some condition
-
00:35:47
that is only going to
be bound here on Earth,
-
00:35:50
then that's called unclean.
-
00:35:52
Okay, so when you were unclean,
unclean,
-
00:35:57
you were removed from
the covenant community
-
00:36:00
as a reminder that
-
00:36:02
that's not the
way it's going to be in heaven.
-
00:36:04
In heaven, there's no pain,
there's no sorrow,
-
00:36:06
there's no crying,
and there's no bleeding.
-
00:36:09
So when you bleed,
you were removed.
-
00:36:12
Whether you're a woman
menstruating or a guy who,
-
00:36:13
you know, who cut his
knuckle or something like that.
-
00:36:16
What that means is
this woman has been
-
00:36:20
outside of community
for 12 years,
-
00:36:25
outside of human
interaction for 12 years,
-
00:36:28
at least, inside of a spiritual
community kind of environment.
-
00:36:33
This is starting to
become her identity.
-
00:36:35
This is now defining her.
-
00:36:37
She's the woman who menstruates.
-
00:36:39
She's the woman who
doesn't have any money
-
00:36:40
because she's been
trying to solve this problem.
-
00:36:42
She's been,
and she is determined that
-
00:36:44
that's not the end of the story.
-
00:36:45
Friends, let me tell you,
right, right, right, right.
-
00:36:47
There's things that you
and I get comfortable with,
-
00:36:50
don't get comfortable with it.
-
00:36:52
There's things that you
and I just start to think,
-
00:36:54
"Well, that's just who I am."
Stop it, stop it.
-
00:36:57
That's maybe who
you choose to be.
-
00:37:00
That's who you are agreeing to.
-
00:37:02
You cannot get comfortable
having things going on
-
00:37:05
in your life that are unclean,
-
00:37:07
meaning are not the
way God wants it to be.
-
00:37:10
Meaning are not the way
it should operate in heaven.
-
00:37:12
You should never,
never get satisfied with
-
00:37:15
this is just who I am.
I guess I'm Irish,
-
00:37:17
so I overdrink and I get angry.
-
00:37:19
Well, this is just who I am.
-
00:37:21
Well, I just learned this.
-
00:37:23
Hey, hey, hey, hey, look,
-
00:37:24
you have to determine
who you want to be.
-
00:37:28
What is your character?
What is your direction?
-
00:37:32
What is your heading?
-
00:37:36
One of the greatest
conversion stories, I believe,
-
00:37:38
of recent times,
uh, is Jelly Roll.
-
00:37:44
You know who Jelly Roll is?
-
00:37:45
His name has determined
who he's going to be.
-
00:37:48
He is a jelly roll, this dude,
500 and some pounds.
-
00:37:52
Grammy Award winning artists,
phenomenal poet,
-
00:37:55
crossover artists, country,
now getting over to gospel
-
00:37:59
because he's been converted.
-
00:38:00
God has gotten
a hold of his heart.
-
00:38:02
And if you've listened
to any of his interviews
-
00:38:04
over the last several years,
there's been
-
00:38:06
a gradual processing
of where he's going.
-
00:38:09
And this is a guy who
has believed the narrative
-
00:38:13
for himself at 500,
and I think it was as highest
-
00:38:15
was 550 pounds,
and then he decided,
-
00:38:20
he was in bed one day
and he was on his side,
-
00:38:23
and his arm was pinned under
his side and was going numb.
-
00:38:27
And he didn't have the
strength to roll himself over.
-
00:38:30
And he realized, "I'm going to
cut off circulation to my arm.
-
00:38:34
I'm going to lose my arm, maybe
die right here, right now."
-
00:38:37
And that was the thing
that kind of triggered him.
-
00:38:39
In a recent interview,
he talked about determining
-
00:38:42
who he wanted to be and
taking on a different identity.
-
00:38:44
And here's just a
little snippet of that.
-
00:38:47
- There's a hill, my driveway
comes down the driveway,
-
00:38:50
comes down a hill,
and you bust a right, Joe.
-
00:38:53
And then you can go
left into a neighborhood,
-
00:38:55
the same run I run every day,
-
00:38:57
or you can go right up a hill,
and it is a hill hill, you know?
-
00:39:03
And the first day I came
out and I looked up that hill
-
00:39:07
and I looked to the left, and
I took two steps to the left.
-
00:39:10
And I stopped,
and I told myself I was like,
-
00:39:12
I've learned about
stories we tell ourselves.
-
00:39:15
The story I've been
telling myself my whole life
-
00:39:17
was take the easy way out.
-
00:39:19
My entire life, Joe,
I have always looked for
-
00:39:22
the path of the easiest,
like, A to B straight line.
-
00:39:25
You know what I mean?
-
00:39:27
And I was like, "I break
that today. I turn right."
-
00:39:32
- Woo. - You feel it, don't you?
-
00:39:36
Right then big.
- It's a big move.
-
00:39:38
- Big moment when you're like,
no, I'm hitting that hill,
-
00:39:41
you know, because I'm big.
-
00:39:42
Fat people hate hills, stairs.
We hate all that.
-
00:39:45
So I'm like, I'm like,
hit the hill, you know?
-
00:39:48
And I'm walking and I'm stopping
-
00:39:49
and I'm walking and I'm stopping
and I'm walking and I stop.
-
00:39:52
I just kept going.
When I got to the top of it,
-
00:39:54
there was a
telephone pole up there
-
00:39:55
and I went and slapped it.
I just slapped it.
-
00:39:59
And I was just I
felt so achieved.
-
00:40:00
And I came down the
hill and then I took a left
-
00:40:02
and I was going to go
straight down to the stop sign
-
00:40:04
and back, but if you take a
left,
-
00:40:06
you can go up another hill.
-
00:40:07
So I was in my mind, I was like,
"I'm going to stop sign,
-
00:40:09
I hit the hill," but as I was
walking by that other hill,
-
00:40:12
I was like, "This is the new
you. You hit the hill, dog.
-
00:40:15
This is the new you. Today is
the new you. You hit the hill."
-
00:40:21
- It's an amazing story
how he's come to Christ,
-
00:40:25
how Christ is, you can
just tell in his language
-
00:40:27
and the whole thing. I'm
not talking about the f bombs,
-
00:40:29
but just just how he gives
God glory in all of that stuff.
-
00:40:33
And here's a guy
who is 500 plus pounds
-
00:40:36
who's lost literally
hundreds of pounds,
-
00:40:40
and he's going to lose
45 pounds as soon as
-
00:40:43
he has a surgery to
remove 45 pounds of skin
-
00:40:45
that's hanging off of him.
-
00:40:48
And it's really
an amazing story.
-
00:40:49
And he says, he basically said,
I determined what I want to be.
-
00:40:52
He said he would tell his wife,
he said,
-
00:40:54
"I'm going out for a run."
-
00:40:56
And it took him months
of being able to run.
-
00:40:59
He could -- It was not
possible for him to run.
-
00:41:01
His run was a walk, but he
told himself that he's a runner.
-
00:41:05
He said, "I am determined.
I'm going for a run."
-
00:41:09
You need to set your eyes on
who God has asked you to be,
-
00:41:12
who God has called you to be,
-
00:41:14
who God has
qualifying you to be.
-
00:41:17
And you need to say,
"That is my identity,
-
00:41:20
and I am determined to be that.
-
00:41:22
And therefore all I have to do
-
00:41:24
is have to grow
into being that."
-
00:41:27
This is the reason
why so many of us
-
00:41:29
stopped making New Year's
resolutions
-
00:41:31
a long, long time ago
-
00:41:32
because the resolution
process was devoid
-
00:41:36
of the identity process.
-
00:41:39
Resolutions and goals only work
-
00:41:41
if they're pinned
to your identity.
-
00:41:44
Just like, well,
something I should do,
-
00:41:45
if it's something I should do.
Okay, okay.
-
00:41:48
I'm gonna work out
three times a week. Okay.
-
00:41:50
This year I'm going to,
-
00:41:51
I'm going
to not have cookies at night.
-
00:41:53
Okay. This year I'm going
to -- I'm going to whatever.
-
00:41:55
I'm going to lose 20 pounds.
Whatever.
-
00:41:57
But why? Why? Like,
when I have a a fitness goa,
-
00:42:01
it's because it's
pinned to my identity.
-
00:42:05
And my identity is -- part of
my identity is I do hard things.
-
00:42:09
So I have got to be
fit in order to pick up
-
00:42:11
a 600 pound motorcycle.
-
00:42:13
I have got to be
working out in fit
-
00:42:15
in order to haul out an
elk on my back quarters.
-
00:42:19
But that's my identity,
so that's why I do that.
-
00:42:23
Reading the Bible.
-
00:42:24
You know,
if you're going to read
-
00:42:26
the Bible this year with us,
I hope you do.
-
00:42:28
It's been really,
really good for, I think,
-
00:42:29
all of us who are doing it.
-
00:42:31
But I'm telling you,
the reason why people
-
00:42:33
don't read the Bible
through to through in a year
-
00:42:35
like just about every American
is has something to do that
-
00:42:37
and just about no
American has done that.
-
00:42:39
The reason is because it's
just something I should do.
-
00:42:45
It's something I
should check off the list.
-
00:42:47
It's something that
a good person --
-
00:42:49
That doesn't work,
doesn't work that way.
-
00:42:50
No, no, no, don't work. That
doesn't work that way for me.
-
00:42:53
I have to say, I didn't
do that until I started.
-
00:42:57
I said, "Okay, hold on, hold on.
-
00:42:59
I am getting fed a bill
of goods from the world
-
00:43:03
that is not right
and is not healthy.
-
00:43:05
I need a clean water source
because I am a godly man.
-
00:43:09
That's what I am. I am a godly
man and Fox News and CNN
-
00:43:15
is not going to contribute
to that at all. At all.
-
00:43:18
In fact, it's going to actually
hurt it in a significant way.
-
00:43:21
And everybody who
mouths those talking points,
-
00:43:23
people are like, 'Well,
what are you talking about"
-
00:43:25
I know you don't
read the Bible then.
-
00:43:27
I know, I know,
I know that because when you do,
-
00:43:29
you get a different worldview.
-
00:43:31
When you do,
you get a different sense
-
00:43:33
of what is right and wrong.
-
00:43:35
And so when I set
a Bible reading goal,
-
00:43:37
it's not because, "Well,
-
00:43:38
I'm a pastor,
I guess I should do that."
-
00:43:40
It's like, no,
I want to be a man of God.
-
00:43:42
And I'm thirsting for that.
-
00:43:43
I'm thirsting for a source
of truth that comes.
-
00:43:47
I'm determined that
that's who I want to be.
-
00:43:50
My time with my family,
time with my grandkids,
-
00:43:53
I don't talk about
them too much because
-
00:43:54
I don't want to make
myself sound like an old fart.
-
00:43:56
I got seven grandkids,
seven grandkids,
-
00:43:59
and so my goals with
my kids and my grandkids
-
00:44:04
aren't because, well,
that's what a father should do.
-
00:44:06
That's what a
grandfather should do.
-
00:44:08
It's because I'm
determined to be a patriarch.
-
00:44:12
Now, "A patriarch?
-
00:44:13
Patriarchal system is
putting our country down."
-
00:44:15
Relax. I'm talking
about a biblical patriarch
-
00:44:18
that is a person who
thinks in generations
-
00:44:22
and is leaving a legacy
for multiple generations.
-
00:44:25
When I'm dead and gone,
or I'm retired,
-
00:44:27
Crossroads will forget
about me immediately.
-
00:44:29
And it should,
that's the way it should be.
-
00:44:30
I will have no legacy
tied to Crossroads
-
00:44:33
or people's memories of me.
-
00:44:35
That's just not
the way it works.
-
00:44:36
But I'll tell you what,
-
00:44:37
the systems I've
set up in my family,
-
00:44:39
the conversations
I have in my family,
-
00:44:41
how that trickles down,
that's my legacy.
-
00:44:43
It's your relationships
that will be your legacy,
-
00:44:46
not your accomplishments.
-
00:44:47
Your accomplishments
get you raises
-
00:44:50
and they get you plaques,
-
00:44:52
and then they get you
nothing when you're gone.
-
00:44:54
And then somebody
else has to do --
-
00:44:55
It is your relationships that
you choose to invest with,
-
00:44:59
whether people you've
adopted in your life
-
00:45:01
or whether people
you've actually given birth.
-
00:45:03
So therefore, when that is
who I'm determined to be,
-
00:45:08
then that leads me
to do certain things,
-
00:45:10
because that's who
I'm determined to be.
-
00:45:12
That's what people who grow are.
-
00:45:13
What is your picture
of where you're going?
-
00:45:16
There's just, "No, all I'm
going is I want an easy life."
-
00:45:18
Yeah. Okay. "Where I'm going
is I just want to be liked.
-
00:45:21
Where I'm going is I
just want to be popular.
-
00:45:23
I just want to fit in
with everybody else."
-
00:45:25
No, that's not a person
who actually grows.
-
00:45:28
Now this woman, she hears
Jesus say, "Who touched Me?"
-
00:45:35
Now again, let's just put Jesus
over here for a minute, okay?
-
00:45:42
It's going to be Jesus
for the rest of our time.
-
00:45:46
This woman, this woman, when
Jesus says, when Jesus says,
-
00:45:51
"Who's touched me?"
Here's what happens, verse 47.
-
00:45:55
And when the woman saw
that she was not hidden,
-
00:45:58
she came trembling and
falling down before Him,
-
00:46:02
declared, in the
presence of all the people
-
00:46:05
why she had touched Him,
-
00:46:12
and how she had been
immediately healed.
-
00:46:14
And He said to her, "Daughter,
-
00:46:16
your faith has made
you well; go in peace"
-
00:46:20
It says when she says she
felt like she was not hidden,
-
00:46:24
meaning everyone realized
something took place.
-
00:46:29
Now, now,
now what took place there?
-
00:46:31
Exactly what took place?
-
00:46:32
I skipped ahead on the story.
What took place?
-
00:46:35
What took place was that
she decided to touch Him.
-
00:46:39
She decided to get close to Him.
-
00:46:42
This is the third thing:
You drive and you push.
-
00:46:46
You drive and push.
-
00:46:47
If you want to grow,
you have to ask questions,
-
00:46:49
you have to determine
who you're gonna be,
-
00:46:51
and you're going
to have to drive
-
00:46:52
and you're going
to have to push.
-
00:46:54
She is determined that she is
going to be a healthy person,
-
00:46:59
and her next option
is Jesus in town.
-
00:47:01
I hear He heals people.
I gotta be around Him.
-
00:47:03
So she goes, but guess what?
-
00:47:04
Everybody's around because
the greatest show in town
-
00:47:07
is there, and there's throngs
of crowds wherever Jesus is.
-
00:47:09
So people are around
and she can't get to Him.
-
00:47:13
She sees Him there, but she
can't -- She can't get there.
-
00:47:17
And where many people say,
"Well, I guess --
-
00:47:19
I guess God hasn't
opened a window yet. Okay.
-
00:47:22
Where God makes a will,
He makes a way.
-
00:47:24
I guess He hasn't made me a way,
-
00:47:25
so therefore I'm going to
go back. I just couldn't do it."
-
00:47:28
She's like, "No, I am,
I am determined,
-
00:47:30
I am, I am, I am going."
-
00:47:32
So she's coming up to
this thing and she can't.
-
00:47:34
You can just imagine
they're kind of elbowing her
-
00:47:37
and everyone wants
to be close to her.
-
00:47:39
And it says, touch the touched
the edge of the garment.
-
00:47:42
What does that mean?
What does that mean?
-
00:47:44
She's trying, she's stretching,
she's stretching,
-
00:47:48
she's she's stretching.
-
00:47:50
She barely catches
the very edge of it, right?
-
00:47:54
Now, what I think it meant
is I think it meant she dove.
-
00:47:57
I didn't have the
guts to dive right now.
-
00:47:59
I think she --
-
00:48:00
I think she dove to touch
the edge of the garment.
-
00:48:04
And Jesus, Jesus,
when He feels something happen.
-
00:48:08
Here's what it says in verse 46.
-
00:48:16
He says, "Who touched me?"
-
00:48:17
When all denied it,
Peter said --
-
00:48:20
They all denied like
I didn't touch you.
-
00:48:21
He's thinking like
they're offended.
-
00:48:23
He's offended someone
touched Him. They all denied it.
-
00:48:27
And Jesus said, "No, no.
Who was it that touched me?"
-
00:48:30
When they all denied it,
Peter said, "Master,
-
00:48:32
the crowds surrounding You
and are pressing in on You."
-
00:48:36
But Jesus said. He said, "Hey,
there's all kind of people.
-
00:48:39
What do you mean?
Everyone's touching You,
-
00:48:41
everyone's touching You,
everyone's bumping into You.
-
00:48:43
There's a massive
amounts of people here."
-
00:48:45
But Jesus said, "No,
someone touched me,
-
00:48:48
for I perceived that power
has gone out from Me.
-
00:48:51
Someone touched me.
I perceived the power."
-
00:48:54
Someone wanted something.
Somebody wanted something.
-
00:48:58
Somebody decided
to push themselves.
-
00:49:00
Somebody.
Somebody was desperate.
-
00:49:03
Somebody wanted something
beyond what they have right now.
-
00:49:06
Somebody was thirsty.
-
00:49:08
Somebody had a question
they needed an answer for.
-
00:49:12
Somebody needed some power.
-
00:49:14
Somebody. I felt it.
-
00:49:15
This isn't just like normal.
-
00:49:17
Jesus goes something,
something just had --
-
00:49:19
There was a transaction
that just took place
-
00:49:21
because somebody
wanted something.
-
00:49:24
And here's my question for you.
-
00:49:26
If you were there, would you
have been touching Jesus?
-
00:49:29
Right now?
Right now? Like a lot.
-
00:49:32
"No.
I'm good, I'm good, I'm good."
-
00:49:34
How you doing?
"I'm good, I'm good.
-
00:49:35
You're good, in other words,
"No, I don't grow.
-
00:49:37
I don't grow, I don't grow,
I'm good, I'm good.
-
00:49:39
I don't grow, I don't grow,
I don't grow."
-
00:49:41
Like, where are you right now?
-
00:49:43
"No, no. Things are going good.
I think I got it all handled."
-
00:49:45
In other words, you don't grow.
-
00:49:46
In other words,
you don't want Jesus.
-
00:49:48
"No, no, no, no,
I think I got a plan.
-
00:49:50
I'm doing some stuff.
I got it all figured out."
-
00:49:52
Oh, good. In other words,
you don't need God.
-
00:49:55
Would you have touched Him?
-
00:49:56
Did you? Did you want Him?
-
00:49:58
Would you have exerted yourself?
-
00:50:00
The reason spiritual
growth doesn't happen
-
00:50:03
is because we don't want it.
-
00:50:05
And more specifically,
we don't want Him.
-
00:50:08
We don't want Him, and we're
not willing to look like a fool.
-
00:50:11
We're not looking
to press through.
-
00:50:12
We're not looking
to fall on the ground,
-
00:50:15
any of that stuff.
-
00:50:16
That's why this
woman is memorialized
-
00:50:18
and we're still
talking about her
-
00:50:20
because she had
a grit about her.
-
00:50:23
She had a thirst about
her to be a different person,
-
00:50:28
to be a whole person,
to be a healthy person.
-
00:50:31
And shoot, today, man,
if you want to change yourself,
-
00:50:34
the haters will tell you you
shouldn't even change yourself.
-
00:50:36
Just be who you are.
-
00:50:38
No, you mean like not grow?
-
00:50:40
Be satisfied with who
you be you. You be you.
-
00:50:44
Gosh, you be you,
in other words,
-
00:50:48
you're a lazy ass
who's threatened by
-
00:50:49
somebody else who
wants more out of their life.
-
00:50:51
That's really what that means.
Yeah.
-
00:50:57
Jelly Roll swore, I guess I
could to serve at some point.
-
00:51:00
Much more mild, milder, tamer
word
-
00:51:02
than words than he was using.
-
00:51:04
But she comes trembling because
she wants something different.
-
00:51:14
She wants that.
Do you want that?
-
00:51:16
What do you want this year?
-
00:51:18
What is your
preferred understanding
-
00:51:20
of what your life
should look like?
-
00:51:22
Are you willing to
lunge and touch Jesus
-
00:51:27
and maybe fall on the
ground and maybe get dirty,
-
00:51:31
maybe even get
hurt in the process?
-
00:51:34
We don't know was
this woman a bit hurt?
-
00:51:36
What was going on with her?
-
00:51:37
Here's what Jesus says to her.
Let's reread it.
-
00:51:41
When the woman saw
that she was not hidden,
-
00:51:43
she came trembling and
falling down before Him,
-
00:51:45
declared, in the
presence of all the people
-
00:51:47
why she had touched Him and
how she had been immediately,
-
00:51:51
immediately,
she touches His garment,
-
00:51:53
she is immediately,
imagine that.
-
00:51:54
You've been bleeding,
you've been having cramps,
-
00:51:56
you've been
having all this stuff,
-
00:51:57
whatever you got to do
down there to manage things,
-
00:51:59
and immediately like, "Good.
Wow, wow. I'm good.
-
00:52:04
No, I'm good, I'm good,
I'm good, I'm good."
-
00:52:06
Jesus is the See this person
who could say I am good. Wow.
-
00:52:09
And He said to her,
He said to her, "Daughter,
-
00:52:13
your faith has made
you well; go in peace."
-
00:52:17
What does Jesus mean by that,
your faith has made --
-
00:52:20
Jesus has made her well.
He's made her well.
-
00:52:22
It was the touching.
It was the touching of his robe
-
00:52:27
of the corner that
that made her well.
-
00:52:29
Jesus made her well.
But what's Jesus saying?
-
00:52:32
He's saying it's your
drive to grow that's made --
-
00:52:35
You believed. You believed
-
00:52:37
if you did some
uncomfortable things
-
00:52:39
that you didn't want to do.
-
00:52:40
She didn't want to come
in public and be shamed
-
00:52:43
because she is unclean
-
00:52:44
and she hasn't been
around other people.
-
00:52:46
She didn't want to
have to fight through
-
00:52:48
and out herself as a woman
who is who is menstruating.
-
00:52:52
I don't want to make it
too graphic, but, you know,
-
00:52:54
it could -- something could drip
-
00:52:56
that would be utterly
humiliating for her in public.
-
00:53:01
She definitely didn't
want to do this thing
-
00:53:03
of calling attention to herself.
-
00:53:04
Definitely didn't want to
dive and fall on the ground.
-
00:53:07
Didn't want to do any of that.
-
00:53:11
But it didn't matter because she
wanted different for her life.
-
00:53:16
She wanted Jesus and what she
thought Jesus could give to her.
-
00:53:26
The song in 2025 that's the
most played song on my playlist
-
00:53:31
of all the songs I listened to,
the one I listened to the most
-
00:53:34
is a song by my new
friend Dante Bowe,
-
00:53:36
which is about
the blood of Jesus.
-
00:53:40
And the blood of Jesus is
what we're going to do here
-
00:53:43
in in just a little bit.
-
00:53:44
If you want to pull
out your little packet.
-
00:53:46
I want to I want to reframe
this a little bit for us.
-
00:53:50
Communion, Eucharist, the mass,
-
00:53:53
different traditions
called different things.
-
00:53:55
I want to tie this to
what we're talking about
-
00:53:57
with this woman today because
it's important to understand.
-
00:54:05
This is a little kit
of remembrance
-
00:54:09
that reminds us of a few things.
-
00:54:11
Most of the time when
we do communion,
-
00:54:13
we think about the things
that we've done that are bad,
-
00:54:15
the things that we
need to grow out of,
-
00:54:17
the things we need
to ask forgiveness for.
-
00:54:19
And that's a totally
appropriate and great.
-
00:54:22
So like the bread
represents the body of Christ
-
00:54:25
who's been broken for you and I,
so that
-
00:54:28
we don't have to
be broken eternally
-
00:54:30
because He was
already broken for us.
-
00:54:33
The blood, what the
juice or wine represents,
-
00:54:36
represents His blood,
His blood spilled
-
00:54:38
on a cross on the ground.
-
00:54:40
There was the shedding
of Him as a sacrifice,
-
00:54:42
a perfect lamb,
so that you and I
-
00:54:44
will never have to shed
our own blood with God.
-
00:54:46
There will be no
eternal spanking for us,
-
00:54:49
for in Him there is therefore
now no condemnation.
-
00:54:52
There's no -- you never get
condemned
-
00:54:54
when you receive Jesus.
-
00:54:56
And when you have communion,
-
00:54:57
you're reminding that
you've received him.
-
00:54:59
You know, if you've come
here today and you're seeking,
-
00:55:02
this is for people who
have received Him,
-
00:55:05
received Him and
are committed to Him.
-
00:55:07
And maybe you're going like,
"Oh, I want that."
-
00:55:09
Well great. This could
be your first communion.
-
00:55:11
You can have this right now.
-
00:55:13
All that's true in communion.
-
00:55:15
But there's another element of
communion that's true as well.
-
00:55:18
The Bible repeatedly talks
about the blood of Jesus,
-
00:55:22
the blood of Jesus,
the blood that covers us.
-
00:55:25
It's also the blood that
gives us an identity.
-
00:55:29
You know, I don't
know in the first century
-
00:55:31
if they understood what DNA was.
-
00:55:33
Pretty confident
they didn't know
-
00:55:34
what DNA was
in the first century,
-
00:55:36
but they knew they had a
very high view of the blood.
-
00:55:38
They knew that
blood represented life.
-
00:55:42
And when Jesus
tells us to do this,
-
00:55:46
what we're doing is not just
remembering His sacrifice
-
00:55:50
and walk in forgiveness.
-
00:55:51
We're also saying,
-
00:55:52
"I am consuming
the identity of Christ.
-
00:55:56
That's who I want to be.
-
00:55:58
I am consuming
the identity of Christ."
-
00:56:01
And that's what this
song is meant to me,
-
00:56:05
consuming the
identity of Christ,
-
00:56:06
the power of Jesus,
the blood of Jesus.
-
00:56:10
We're going to do some
of that song right now,
-
00:56:12
and then we're going
to take communion,
-
00:56:15
and then we'll sing
a little bit more of it.
-
00:58:23
- Let's all stand right now.
-
00:58:25
Let's take out your
little communion kit.
-
00:58:29
Turn it upside down so
the bread is up on top.
-
00:58:33
Take off that little thing,
the little peel thing.
-
00:58:37
And bring out that
little bread nugget.
-
00:58:42
The body of Christ, the identity
of Christ, broken for you,
-
00:58:49
for all who would receive Him
-
00:58:51
and all who want to remember
and walk in forgiveness,
-
00:58:54
take and eat.
-
00:59:00
I'll flip it over so it looks
like a little wine glass again.
-
00:59:03
Take that top part off.
-
00:59:08
The blood of Christ,
-
00:59:11
the blood that's shed
for the remission of sin.
-
00:59:13
The blood that is shed
for all who have problems,
-
00:59:16
for all who need
areas to grow in.
-
00:59:18
The blood of Jesus,
actually is His identity
-
00:59:23
for all who would have Him,
-
00:59:24
and all will walk in forgiveness
-
00:59:26
in the identity of Christ.
-
00:59:27
The blood of Christ.
Take and eat.
-
01:03:35
- You haven't done my
favorite part of the song.
-
01:03:44
- Come on, come on.
-
01:05:15
- Yes it does.
-
01:05:17
There, there. Now, don't make
that mistake the next service.
-
01:05:22
Good. All right.
-
01:05:24
Hey, man. God loves you.
He does love you.
-
01:05:27
He's for you and He wants
you to be like Him in 2026.
-
01:05:31
So let's grow that way.
-
01:05:32
God, thank You for being
patient and kind and wise. Amen.
-
01:05:37
Have a great day.
-
01:05:40
- I hope you hear that God
loves you, that He's for you,
-
01:05:43
and that His blood
changes things for you and I.
-
01:05:46
I hope that you had a
chance to take communion.
-
01:05:48
If you didn't, hey,
here's your chance.
-
01:05:50
Let's grab something to drink,
something to eat
-
01:05:53
and read through that
account in the book of Luke
-
01:05:57
where Jesus said this is
my body broken for you.
-
01:05:59
This is my blood shed for you.
-
01:06:01
Just take a moment with God.
Say God, thank You.
-
01:06:04
Thank You that Your
blood changes things in me,
-
01:06:06
changes things
through me and for me.
-
01:06:08
Now, everything you've
heard today is in the hope
-
01:06:12
that you'll experience
more of God in your life,
-
01:06:14
not just in your church life,
but in your daily life
-
01:06:16
that you experience
more of God's presence,
-
01:06:18
more of God's purpose,
more of God's joy and peace.
-
01:06:21
If there's anything we can
do to help you towards that,
-
01:06:24
we'd love to do that and you
can actually connect with us.
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You just fill out
the connect card.
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Crossroads.net/connect,
myself or somebody on my team
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will reach out to you,
set up a time to talk
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or help get you the information,
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or connect you to the
right group or opportunity
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to help you go to a
new place this year.
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As always,
we'd love to pray for you,
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encourage you,
do whatever we can.
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We'll see you next
week as we kick off
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a new series on prayer.
Have a great one!